I often wonder why people try to hype their life up. I have a few friends and know other people as well, that try and make their life more than what it is on the social networks. Now i'm not hating by any means. My thing is, live your life, dont try to empress anybody. You get on Twitter or Facebook, and act like your life is the ish, but you forget people know the real you outside of these social networks.
There is no reason for anybody to act like they have the perfect life, there is no such thing. Everybody has problems, and when you've told people those problems, but then they see your tweets, or statuses, then they think you're being fake. I mean come on.
All i'm saying is you dont have to Hype your life up for everybody else. If they cant accept you the way you are, then they aren't really your friends. I am the same way on or off of social networks. Crazy, talking out the side of my neck, and i don't care. I don't care what people think about me, because honestly, they're non factors in my life..
So I hope people will just be themselves, don't try to be something you're not.
Wednesday, April 4, 2012
Tuesday, April 3, 2012
Using Children as Pawns
I always wonder, why women and men use children from previous relationships as pawns to try and get their way. It always seems to me that the fathers who want to be involved in their children's life, are the ones who always get the short end of the stick.
For instance, I know a few men who pay child support, and also help out with other needs, that are not in their parenting plans. Like extracurricular activities, school supplies, and clothes, plus make sure they have the necessities at their house as well.
Why is it that THEY are the ones who aren't able to see their children, all because they don't want to be with the mother of their child, or they don't bow down to their demands. It makes no sense at all to me. On the other hand, you have fathers that because that woman doesn't want to be with them, have no relationship at all with their child. That's sad, just because is didn't work out, that's not the child's fault. Step up to the plate and be there for your child. There are too many out here without the father being involved. How are boys supposed to grow into men, and how are girls supposed to trust men, if they don't have a father around.
This is my own opinion, and of course there are mothers out there who have abandoned their children as well, but it way more fathers who are struggling with this. Let them be the father and quit trying to control their life, because you are MISERABLE...
You may think you are hurting the other parent, when in all reality you are hurting the child...Think about that.
For instance, I know a few men who pay child support, and also help out with other needs, that are not in their parenting plans. Like extracurricular activities, school supplies, and clothes, plus make sure they have the necessities at their house as well.
Why is it that THEY are the ones who aren't able to see their children, all because they don't want to be with the mother of their child, or they don't bow down to their demands. It makes no sense at all to me. On the other hand, you have fathers that because that woman doesn't want to be with them, have no relationship at all with their child. That's sad, just because is didn't work out, that's not the child's fault. Step up to the plate and be there for your child. There are too many out here without the father being involved. How are boys supposed to grow into men, and how are girls supposed to trust men, if they don't have a father around.
This is my own opinion, and of course there are mothers out there who have abandoned their children as well, but it way more fathers who are struggling with this. Let them be the father and quit trying to control their life, because you are MISERABLE...
You may think you are hurting the other parent, when in all reality you are hurting the child...Think about that.
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